Military Spouse Appreciation Day

Today is a day that goes largely unrecognized, but has been around since 1984. 

It is Military Spouse Appreciation Day, a day to recognize the sacrifices and the commitment of all military spouses.  (Since we've always been in infantry units, I don't know any military husbands- but they are out there too!)

So, I will step up on my Marine Wife soapbox for just a minute.  (It's my day, I'm allowed! ;))

I have been a Marine Wife for about 3 and a half years now.  I have been involved with the military community for 7 years.  The strength, courage and commitment these women constantly show in the face of adversity is truly humbling.  From the highest of highs, to the lowest of lows, these women show such grace and dignity, and it is truly remarkable to me. 

We as spouses patiently wait for our husband's return, we become single parents when they are deployed.  We manage to push through the face of adversity, and come out better on the side because of it.  We can create a household at the drop of a hat, and lean hard on strangers, who in 2 weeks will be our best friend.  We must learn how to do it all on our own, but still know how to ask for help when we need it.

 Many people have told me that I am strong- but please know that I am only as strong as my fellow military wives allow me to be- and I am so lucky to be completely surrounded by some of the toughest and strongest women I know.  I am lucky to have their support through anything and everything, and I am blessed to have such amazing role models to turn to for guidance.

So, to my fellow military spouses, thank you.  Thank you for showing me what it really does mean to be strong.  Thank you for teaching me that when you reach the end of your rope, you just need to tie a knot and hold on.  Thank you for showing me that each sacrifice has a reward.  Thank you for showing me what it means to be "Semper Gumby" (Always Flexible!!)  And thank you for continuing to care about me and teach me a new lesson each and every day.

Presidential Proclamation--Military Spouse Appreciation Day

Military spouses serve as steady and supportive partners to the heroes in uniform who protect and defend our great Nation every day.  Across America and around the world, military spouses serve our country in their own special way, helping families and friends through the stress of a deployment, caring for our wounded warriors, and supporting each other when a loved one has made the ultimate sacrifice.
     
Our service members and their families seldom ask for support or recognition.  They carry out their duties to family and country with the quiet courage and strength that has always exemplified the American spirit.  On Military Spouse Appreciation Day, we have an opportunity to not only honor the husbands and wives of our service members, but also thank them by actively expressing our gratitude in both word and deed.
     
When a member of our Armed Forces is deployed, an entire family is called to serve.  The readiness of our troops depends on the readiness of our military families, as millions of parents, children, and loved ones sacrifice as well.  This means supporting our military spouses is also a national security imperative.  Earlier this year, my Administration released the report on military families, Strengthening our Military Families:  Meeting America's Commitment, which marshaled resources from across our Government to identify new opportunities to support these patriots.

     

First Lady Michelle Obama and Dr. Jill Biden are working tirelessly to enlist all sectors of American life to address the unique challenges of military families.  Their national initiative, "Joining Forces," mobilizes Americans to give our service members and their families the opportunities and support they have earned.  Americans can find service projects, send messages of thanks to military families, and learn more about this initiative by visiting:  www.JoiningForces.gov.

     
On Military Spouse Appreciation Day, let us join together to show our service members we are taking care of their families back home as they serve our Nation across the globe.  As neighbors, teachers, parents, and fellow citizens, we can reach out to military husbands and wives in our communities.  We can show our appreciation in countless ways, from offering to help with household maintenance and childcare to encouraging the community involvement and career development of military spouses.
     
It is through our actions that we show our commitment to our service members and their spouses.  By embracing military families, we demonstrate our partnership in the defense of our freedom and the security of the United States.
     
NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim May 6, 2011, as Military Spouse Appreciation Day.  I call upon the people of the United States to honor military spouses with appropriate ceremonies and activities.
     
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this fifth day of May, in the year of our Lord two thousand eleven, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-fifth.
          
BARACK OBAMA
(from http://www.whitehouse.gov/the-press-office/2011/05/05/presidential-proclamation-military-spouse-appreciation-day)